Tuesday, January 4, 2011


LONELINESS...... trying to define it but still unable to do it…

Men love because they are afraid of themselves, afraid of the loneliness that lives in them, and need someone in whom they can lose themselves as smoke loses itself in the sky. 
                                                                      ~V.F. Calverton

Words so true but men always deny this fact that they are feeling lonely…

Once I asked my friend what is loneliness and I got a very good reply from him saying…”loneliness is a part of you that is hidden within you …….you just  realize it when there is no one to hide it from you….

Women can share their feelings with anyone (anyone means a little close to them and whom they trust)..…but men are much closed characters….they never share anything with any one…..they share only a reasonable part of themselves to the crowd….

Some people are really happy in their real life whereas some wear mask of happiness to hide the dark side of their memories and sadness….

Why cant men confront their feeling to someone………not even totally with whom they LOVE…..

People say women are very mysterious but the fact is the person who said this was a man and didn’t bother to consider  his own gender type.…….


  1. Hi, this is Rajib. I happened to visit your blog for the first time and thought to say hello. In my opinion, loneliness is a state of the mind and is same for both men and women. It can capture the mind of anyone even when he / she is surrounded by people. Reason may be depression, despair, etc..What you say ?

  2. you make sense but still rajib despair and depression are not always the reason and you known that too........still liked your opinion...

  3. loneliness i unexplainable every creature on earth feel it the same , I disagree Calverton's words

  4. But i agree to calverton's words sudhi....in some sense its true...

  5. Very true isolation can be one's greatest enemy. Thanks for sharing this post. Here's one of my popular post http://dharbarkha.blogspot.com/2010/08/say-no-to-dowry.html